Several people have asked recently what a ‘normal’ day looks like at our house. Although the schedule varies some, here are the basics:
5:45 rise and shine. Unload dishwasher, make coffee for Jim’s thermos, make his lunch, fix his breakfast. He leaves at 6:30. Then Tori gets up for school, and I fix her breakfast and lunch, and make her a cup of coffee. She’s out the door at 7:15 or so, and I get myself ready for the day. The boys eat breakfast about 8, and we’re typically ready to go between 8:30 and 9. Then, we do…
- school (M/T/W/Th)
- therapy (speech M/T/Th; occupational Tuesday only; need to add physical therapy to the calendar)
- laundry (M/W/F, other days as needed)
- keeping house (M/T/W/Th/F)
- errands (W generally, sometimes M or F afternoon)
- helping homeschool a high school friend (M/W)
- sports practice (M/Th)
- preschool (Tuesdays. I teach, the boys are junior helpers)
- all the other stuff (pay bills, file, make phone calls, take care of business) required to keep the family running smoothly (M/T/W/Th/F) This is done while the boys get playtime. :)
It looks sorta like this, graphically:
Frequently, I need more hours in my day…or to use my time more efficiently! :)
Some days things are different. Today I’ve got an extra all day. She’s darling (and little!) but it definitely changes the flow around here. Then Friday, my ‘catch-up’ day, is likely to be spent making a round trip to Pullman. Em is coming home for spring break, and because of her class schedule can’t get a ride back. We’ll see. While I’d prefer to not make the 600 mile round trip, I would really love to see her (duh!) so road trip it is! Fortunately, I don’t mind the drive, and I haven’t been to Pullman since August. Plus, the weather is supposed to be gorgeous, so I’m game for it. :)
So…seeing it laid out, it doesn’t seem like that much. So why does it feel so overwhelming some days??
I feel overwhelmed a lot with just Rachel, Jennifer! You have a lot more going on in your world with more than one child. I totally see how you can feel like you need more hours in the day. I always feel that way. I used to keep to a set schedule like that - I should probably try it again.
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